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The culture of Punjab, from among the cultures of the world,
has its own unique fragrance. It is unmatched. The scent of this fertile
land is such in which the warmth of you-are-my-own is inborn. All
communities hold pride in their traditions and the Punjabis whose
openmindedness has become proverbial also hold their unique tradition of
hospitality high in their estimation as well as in their values of life.
A guest in Punjab is considered as a representative sent by
God.
Hospitality promotes brother-hood and holds a special
significance for bringing people closer, love and kindness flow Out Of
it and in Punjab they say that the more you love the more it multiplies
and you receive back many more times the kindness that you
give.
The land of Punjab which is variously described as the land
of the Gurus, Pirs and the warriors, as a matter of faith believes in
earning honest living through hard labour and in sharing the Fruits of
this labour with others without expecting any returns. Hospitality is a
living aspect of our culture which is shown even to the migratory birds
who seek soujorn here.
Punjabis don't profess and practice
hospitality in their own land only but carry it, untainted and virgin to
the lands where they emigrate and keep alight the zest of humane love
which is an organic trait of their culture. There in no country in the
world where the have not created waves.
Hospitality binds people
together in bonds of love, it increases the circles of friendship and
makes the atmosphere aglow with human warmth. Punjabis have proved this
in all corners of the world in seemingly alien lands and because of
these qualities they have been willingly accepted as useful, responsible
citizens of the world, warm neighbours and good friends.
Man is a
social animal and hospitality is an initimate aspect of social
intercourse in which Punjabis excel. When the British landed in Punjab
as victors they were astonished to find that every little village and
every mohalla in the larger cities of Punjab had special places to
receive and honour guests and that the people of this land were
irrepressible extroverts. The District Gazetteers of the time bring
forth Punjab's generous hospitality in bold relief.
Although
Punjab has received hospitality as a God's gift yet, on account of
recent disturbances and rising prices it is coming under strain in the
cities of Punjab. However, in villages it still remains supreme. It
resides in the soul of rural folks. Reach a home in the middle of the
night, the ladies will happily get up and cook fresh food for you. You
can't pass by certain vilIages without enjoying hospitality. You'll be
looked after so long as you stay. You will be warmly sent off, not empty
handed, but with a gift of whatever is available in the house. Like all
other human traits of the people of Punjab their hospitality is also
guileless, rare and intense. It is an ubiquitous theme of Punjabi folk
lore. When the crow, sitting atop the roof, crows, or dough when it is
being kneaded bubbles, folk songs tell us that these are auspicious
omens which convey that a guest is on his way. There are several other
sayings which speak of the pleasures that are derived by looking after
visitors.
Good habitat, laughter, playfulness and love form the
enviornment in which hospitality grows. May the culture of this blessed
land of the five rivers perpetuate and ever grow
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